I have been thinking about the term "thank-you". It is very nice to hear at the moment of delivery of something for another. But, I think we might take this to another level. Why not do something really neat for ones you are wanting to thank. Do something that would please them and not necessarily you. For instance, realize what thing or activity that they do not like to do and do it for them. This happened to me the other month when my husband took the grocery list and got the contents and I did not have to go into the monstrous store and walk the four football fields to get 10 items. I was was so impressed that he did that without asking. He said just wanted to do something to thank you for being you. Wow, does it get any better than that? Kids could dust and vacuum their own rooms plus the general living area and watch how curfews get eased, trust gets enhanced and best kid on the block awards come out. If a wife would clean out the sock drawer; match 'em up or toss 'em! Maybe just step in and clean out the refrigerator or glean the freezer over the holidays. If it was not used in the last year, out it goes. You do not even have to be there to judge that decision. That would be a great thank-you that has no strings and would be appreciated. All you have to do is seek out what matters and not expect anything back; that is a real thank-you!
This is Leandro John Rodriguez-Mixon, our grandson who is in his sophomore year in Engineering and Architecture at Eastern Carolina University. Jamba!